If you're looking for a some bedroom excitement where you're in total control, plus size dominatrix clothing will definitely let you release your inner bad girl. Fetish is becoming more publicly accepted, and people are not scared to openly admit that they like to play hard in the bedroom. With consumers in mind, retailers have upped their dominatrix departments and they are making some of their hottest pieces in plus sizes.
A&J Lingerie and More
A&J Lingerie and More is a lingerie and fetish store based out of NYC, and is a true gem. This shop has been around since 2001 and has its customers always begging for more. Their prices are exceptionally good, so you can leave satisfied with a large bag of goodies. A&J's bountiful selection of black plus size lingerie is what can really draw a dominatrix dresser in.
Black is a dominatrix's best friend, so check out some black outfits, along with some other stand-out pieces from A&J:
- How hot is this black faux vinyl chemise, complete with open back? This chemise has studded straps in the front, adjustable straps in the back, and comes with a matching g-string and novelty paddle. It's available for about $34 and fits 165-275lbs.
- Perhaps you are more of a lace body stocking type of woman? Get this crotchless black lace bowtie body stocking in Queen size. It retails for about $16 and is adorned with lace detailing and a ruffled off-the-shoulder neckline. This outfit easily hides any imperfections because of its intricate all-over lace detailing.
- A&J also offers a lot more than just lingerie. What is a dominatrix without her furry handcuffs? These black fuzzy heavy duty cuffs are built to play hard, yet they offer a quick release button in case you lose the key. Get them for under $20.
The Stockroom
The Stockroom is a fetish store in Los Angeles, and lucky for plus size beauties, they have tons of dominatrix style outfits. This shop offers true dominatrix outfits and you will absolutely look the part with all of its tantalizing options. In addition to their outfits, they also offer a variety of accessories as well. Below are some of The Stockroom's best outfits:
- Check out this floor length latex Madonna gown retailing for just under $400. This is an ultra high quality dominatrix piece that has a zippered back for easy dressing. This latex stunner is available in sizes XL-3X and comes in a dizzying amount of colors (19 to be exact). This is full on head-to-toe dominatrix at its finest. Don't forget to throw on a belt or corset over this dress and let your curves be on full display.
- Want the latex look but searching for a shorter hemline? The Stockroom has this amazing v-neck latex dress, available in sizes XL-3X, priced at around $180. Thigh-high stockings and super high platform pumps will look great with this mini. If you are lucky enough to have luscious red locks, red latex looks amazing on red-headed plus sized beauties, so definitely try this mini in red.
Sunset Novelties
Talk about outfit selection! Sunset Novelties definitely caters to plus size dominatrices and they offer 20 percent off to first time customers that place an online order. Sunset has great pieces and many of them are figure flattering for plus size women. Sunset can also be a one-stop-shop, as they carry dominatrix accessories galore. Check out their selection:
- Simple yet sexy, imagine yourself in this black silver ring three piece bustier set. Priced at just over $40 and coming in sizes 1X-3X, it is a great fetish find. This also comes with a matching g-string and hose.
- Not to miss is Sunset's steampunk corset, complete with silver front clasp closures, available in sizes 2X-6X at around $90. This is one of their top-sellers and it is easy to see why. Because of its corset aspect, this top has the true ability to take inches off your waist.
Steampunk corset
Fetish Factory
Based in Florida, this store lets its freak flag fly high. Fetish Factory has a really big online section for plus size women, so it is extremely easy to put together many different outfits. Below are some sensual selections:
- This buckled suspender tube dress, available for about $100, definitely doesn't disappoint in the dominatrix department. Made of black latex, it has a front zipper for quick dressing, and features three front buckles. It's available in sizes 2X-4X and great for plus size beauties because of its concealing buckles.
- Let your submissive know what's up with this sexy chain PVC Buckled Suspender Tube Dress, sold for about $63, and available in sizes 1X-3X. It features adjustable suspenders, underwire cupping, and a back zipper.
- Need to finish off your outfit? Top off your look, and tower over your subject, with these platform black patent five strap 7" stilettos for about $68.
Buckled Suspender Tube Dress
Teddy Girl
Teddy Girl lingerie also hails from Florida and has an amazing plus size section dedicated to dominatrix clothing. This store ships out your styles discreetly, with only the name "TGL Inc." on both the box and on your credit card statement. This way you can keep Teddy Girl your naughty little secret! Shhh, here are some sexy options:
- This Bustier Set (shown below, about $40) with honeycomb detailing is exquisite and comes with a black g-string and matching stockings. Available in sizes 1X-3X, the honeycombing detailing gives the illusion of a slimmer middle.
- Leaving nothing to the imagination is this crotchless dominatrix teddy, available in Queen sizing and priced at about $33. It stuns with its perfectly placed collared neckline and is definitely dominatrix worthy.
- Teddy Girl doesn't have all of the accessories like the other mentioned stores do, but they make up for it with their plus size body stocking selection, available to fit sizes 12-18. Check out their body stocking collection and see for yourself the many lavish and diverse styles they offer.
Teddy Girl Bustier G-String & Stockings Set
Wearing Your Dominatrix Outfits
Unlike other plus size attire, your dominatrix outfits should fit you extremely tight. Showing off every single curve is part of the allure of this type of lingerie. For putting a dominatrix outfit together, accessories are key. Here are some must have key outfit pieces, and important accessories, for the ultimate dominatrix look:
- A strapless bustier
- Pasties
- A leather or latex catsuit
- Fishnet stockings
- Ultra high stilettos
- Thigh-high boots
- Accessories like whips, handcuffs, and blindfolds.
Remember, accessories are key, so you might also want to go for some teasers, ticklers, restraints, rings, clamps, or other items.
Size Tips & Styling Suggestions
Get the right fit and look incredible with these size and style tips.
Sizing Tips
- Because dominatrix clothing is supposed to be super tight, for certain pieces you might only see the store has one size as noted 'Queen.' This normal and in most cases plus sizes will fit this size.
- Sizes can also be categorized by body weight. Don't be discouraged by these types of sizing. They really do fit a broad range of sizes, and remember the tighter the better!
- Don't forget, latex and lace stretch, and corsets can be easily adjusted.
- Since this type of lingerie and clothing is supposed to be so tight, it may take a while to get on. Everyone can expect to have a hard time squeezing into a latex catsuit; it is the same concept as a wetsuit.
Styling Tips
- Layering is encouraged. Just because you bought the full body latex catsuit, doesn't mean that you can't throw a corset on over it.
- Putting a corset or a bustier over any dominatrix outfit is always a good idea.
- Don't forget the tights! Thigh-high stockings are a must with any short teddy or dress.
- Add patent leather stilettos for a maximum impact to any outfit. You can wear these over any socks or stockings.
- Many dominatrix outfit pieces and accessories go together, so definitely don't be afraid to mix and match your items.
In Control and Having Fun
When playing the role of a dominatrix, you're only limited by your own imagination. All full figured women who want to play the dominatrix role can easily find the lingerie, outfits, and any accessories that they want, all in their shapely sizing. Easy shopping and plenty of style options mean you can have a closetful of dominatrix looks.